The last week at Our Home

It’s taken us a while to write this blog … we’ve been coming to terms with leaving Our Home and the last week was so emotional we’ve not known how to put it into words. However, having cried out all our tears and spoken to the children numerous times since leaving, we’re now ready to share our experience with you.

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The week was a beautiful one, filled with so many wonderful memories makers. We went on plenty of walks where the children picked us lovely flowers to “take back to England.” K enjoyed his last few football matches with the older boys, we sang songs and recapped over the amaxing few months we spent together. We took more photos and promised the children as soon as we returned to England we will print and send them as we did last time which gave them something exciting to look forward to.

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The children had many heart wrenching questions for us “when are you coming back?” “why can’t you live here?” “Do the airports check your bags? I was thinking I could sneak in and come to England with you.” It truly was so tough and we were just as upset as them, if not more. All we could do was reassure them that we would be back and told them that not a day will go by that we won’t think about them and that we will write, phone and do everything we can to stay in touch. It felt different leaving this time to before. It wasn’t just an orphanage where we volunteered at, it was family we were leaving. Our little bedroom became our home and we packed our bags whilst listening to music from the last few months that we had shared with the children… which probably didn’t help!

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To make things just a tad more difficult during the last few days there was absolutely no water or electricity. It was a really hard few days both physically and emotionally and the children needed a treat. We wanted to make our last evening as fun as possible and luckily during the afternoon the electricity and water finally came back. We brought some speakers to the dining hall to play music and H’s nan and granddad very kindly sponsored chicken biryani for dinner, the kids favourite! Although it was lovely evening enjoyed by all, we couldn’t get away from the feeling that we were leaving tomorrow, it felt very surreal.

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When the morning came around we woke up so heartbroken that our incredible journey at Our Home had come to an end. One of the boys was awake already at 5am and had come to our room to help us finish packing. That started the tears off and once they started they wouldn’t stop! It was by far the hardest thing we’ve ever had to do. Every single child woke up extra early to see us off and greeted us with letters, flowers and drawings. We said goodbye to each and every one of them although we could barely speak we were so upset. So much for keeping it together and being strong! We were so sad as as our car drove away and all of the kids stood looking on.

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We did however leave feeling content that we achieved more than what we originally came to do, not only teaching and helping with day to day duties but building relationships and bonds with the children that can never be broken. They all know that we will ALWAYS be there to support them and we will visit as much as we can, although it’s the end of this trip it is just the start for our future with them. We’ve made the best memories and together experienced not only the fun, laughter and love but we’ve also endured the rawness, truthfulness, tears, emotions and overcome so many firsts. In the words of the children:

“You going time you no cry, you going time you happy only” … Until next time Our Home.

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A day at the beach

07/04/17 was an incredibly magical day for us and a memory that will last forever. Whilst staying at Our Home we decided that we wanted to do a day trip with the children during their summer holidays and agreed that going to the beach was the best idea.

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We hired a tourist coach to take all of the children from Our Home to Kannur beach, about four hours away. For some of them it was their first time taking a road trip and had never before seen the sand and sea. The week leading up to the trip was full of anticipation as the kids couldn’t talk about anything else. All sorts of rumours started flying around and the girls came to us one day with worried expressions on their little faces telling us that the boys said if they swam in the sea their hair would fall out. We couldn’t help but laugh!

The day before quickly came around and the excitement was indescribable! In the evening the children packed their bags, brushed their teeth and were ready for bed nice and early, although we doubt they got much sleep! The journey started at 4:30am and we were hoping to get a few more zzz’s on the coach but there was no chance of that. As soon as we’d boarded the music was on, the disco lights were flashing and the kids were going crazy! It was amazing to see how much energy they had and how happy they were at the start of the day.

45 minutes later the partying slowed down and the travel sickness begun… when we first got on the bus the older boys handed out plastic bags. We thought this was for rubbish and considering we’re in India this was a delight to see. Very quickly we had nine children throwing up and we soon realised that this is what the bags were for. The remaining three hours were filled with a mixture of dancing, sickness and sleeping.

When we pulled up their faces were a picture and as we had hoped Kannur happened to be a beautiful and clean beach. All of a sudden it was rush rush rush, all systems go and they were all pushing to get off the bus they loved so much and never wanted to leave just minutes before. They played literally ALL day on the beach. Building sandcastles, burying each other, playing football, chasing each other and swimming. It was so emotional and overwhelming. Some of the little ones were afraid of the sea to start with but by the end of the day they didn’t want to leave and most of the boys were confident to give swimming under the waves a good go. For lunch we ate fried fish and rice and we’ve never seen them eat so fast so they could dive right back into the waters.

We left the beach by sunset to begin partying on the bus again but this time it was H who had the travel sickness. We were stuck in traffic and the journey took nearly seven hours but by midnight when we arrived home the children were all sleeping soundly with sand in their hair and smiles on their faces. A day we will cherish forever.

Happy HOLIdays

The last two weeks have been as jam packed as the others, however the school holidays have now started and we are all enjoying some time to relax, especially as the temperature is rising by the day!

IMG_0384Last weekend we had the opportunity to experience something new and very unique. There was a local movie premiere being held in the town close us, Kalpetta. Chacko and Avi, who run the Our Home, are good friends with one of the main actors so he very kindly donated tickets to all of the children. ‘Take Off’ was a Malayalam film but we were able to understand the storyline with a little help from the older boys. It was far from your typical Bollywood movie and instead focussed on real life ISIS events when a group of Indian nurses working in Iraq were stranded in the war torn city of Mosure. It was a very touching storyline that we thoroughly enjoyed, we’re keeping our fingers crossed that it does well as it’s being shown exclusively in Kerala at the moment but it has the potential to go big in India! Our first ever movie premiere was brilliant and we even got to meet some of the actors. A memory both us and the children will never forget.

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The onsite school has closed for summer now and the children all had mixed emotions. Some are excited but others are sad at the thought of not seeing their friends for two months. The last day at school was a busy one, the Science Exhibition was held as it had been postponed from its earlier date. They were all so enthusiastic to show us their inventions and we couldn’t believe some of the masterpieces the kids from local villages had created. Our favourites included real electric fans made from cardboard, batteries and tiny motors and clay volcanos complete with lava and dinosaur models! There were also awards to be given out from the sports and art days held earlier in the year and we were delighted to be asked to present these to the kids. It was a great atmosphere as all of the winners collected their medals and trophies.

We missed Holi Festival due to the exams so to celebrate the end of the school year we bought some powder paints to play with on the first day of the summer holidays. It was just as we expected having seen many photos of Holi Festival and the amount of colour was overwhelming. We ran about chasing each other with the paint for a good couple of hours and it was so fun! It was a really good activity to get both the girls and boys involved in and we were like big kids too. We got some incredible photos of the children playing and this day is such a special memory that will stay with us forever.

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Throughout India there is still a huge amount of work to be done before women will be considered equal to men. Having worked with the Asian Circle we want to do everything we can to work towards equality for women and girls of this country. An estimated three million girls are out of school in India and it’s shocking statistics like this that need to change. At Our Home the girls are treated exactly the same as the boys and they all receive the same education, Chacko and Avi are such an inspiration in the work they do with these children and we wanted to enhance that. We spent a day with the girls simply chatting about how important their education is, what they wanted to do when they grew up and motivating them that if they put their mind to it they can achieve anything their heart desires!

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Our meal this week meant an early start as we decided to change it up a bit and cook breakfast. We opted for omelette with plenty of chilli and onion served with bread bread, sweetened of course as we can’t find regular bread anywhere. This dish was an improvement on our attempt at sweet chilli noodles, and the children loved the taste … as did we!

All in all it’s been two weeks filled with a good meal, lots of laughter, celebrations and our first Indian movie premiere! There’s always something unexpected in store and that’s what we love about India.

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Backyard Cinema

Whilst travelling the world, would you believe one of the things we really enjoyed doing was checking out each country’s cinemas. Every single one we visited, from Oz to the Philippines and India, were SO much better than British cinemas. Tickets at less than a quarter of our price, a huge range of snacks all less than £1 and the quality of the  cinemas themselves were second to none.

When we returned home we were not looking forward to paying way over the odds at Vue, or sitting in a hot, stinky room at Premiere. So, when we discovered Backyard Cinema, we were overjoyed! With tickets starting from £16.50  you’re not only seeing a film, but you’re getting a fantastic experience too. The first time we visited we saw Jurassic World in an exclusive jungle themed set up, venturing deep through the jungle before taking our seats in comfy beanbags!

More recently we saw Home Alone in their Winter Night Garden extravaganza, and the set it self was like being in a movie; fairy lights, Christmas woodland, themed cocktails and blankets to snuggle with and get in the festive mood!

If you’re travelling in London we can’t recommend you visit this place enough. We’re super excited to see what ideas they come up with next! You can check out all of the packages and film screenings they offer here.

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Natural History Museum Ice Rink

It’s pretty hard to beat Christmas in London and with it being our home city we’re trying a range of different festive activities to recommend to you guys, starting with ice skating at the Natural History Museum venue.

5The outside entrance to the NHM has been transformed into a winter wonderland, sponsored by Swarovski you can imagine how beautiful and glistening it is. The actual ice rink has a great view of the museum and is of a good size, leaving you with plenty of space to skate together… or fall to the floor depending on your skills! The main thing is, it isn’t so packed that you can’t move – which is the problem with a lot of London rinks this time of year.

A cute bonus is the Swarovski skate cam, located on the rink you can pose for a Christmas photo in the stunning setting and collect a print out for free after or download it online. Perfect for H who is a sucker for souvenirs, and we’re sure many of you are too! After your skate relax in the upstairs café with a hot drink and snack whilst overlooking the magical view.

Our only negative comment is that it’s recommended you get there 40 mins prior to your booking time, so we rushed straight from work to arrive early and were given our skates pretty much immediately and were then left waiting around. However, we can expect the closer to Christmas it gets the busier the rink becomes – so take this as you will!

We would totally recommend this Christmas ice skating experience. Reasonably priced, fab atmosphere in truly iconic surroundings- the perfect Christmas date night!

Price: Adults from £12.95

Availability: Open until 8th December

Tickets: http://www.nhm.ac.uk/visit/exhibitions/ice-rink.html

Yo Bitch, let’s cook!

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Being huge fans of Breaking Bad, when we heard about ABQ London we just had to go. It’s a bar inside a replica RV that Mr. White and Jessie cooked in, set in east London. With the theme tune playing on arrival all bitches are greeted with your first cocktail; a trademark Heisenberg blue mojito in a laboratory flask!

The bar features an array of things you will recognise from the hit TV series, although we won’t go into too much detail and ruin it for you! You’re given yellow suits to put on and get into character then seated at small tables with all sorts of cool equipment. With a menu of 6 cocktails to choose from including Walt Junior’s breakfast, you are shown how to make the cocktails briefly and then left to your own devices to play around. The cocktails we made were all delicious as well as being fun to construct, think along the lines of bars like The Alchemist but even better!

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The cost for this awesome event is £30 per person and this includes the welcome cocktail and two which you cook yourself! If you think the average price for a cocktail in London is normally more than £10 then you’re bagging yourself a bargain whilst experiencing something so unique! You can book your tickets here. Unfortunately, “all bad things must come to an end!” but this is certainly a date night to remember!

Pumpkin Pickin’

This year we decided to get all spooky and into Halloween and were looking for some exciting things to do in the London & Essex area. First thing on the agenda was pumpkin picking, and we found a great patch at Foxes Farm offering this for free in two locations, Basildon and Colchester.

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If you’re travelling in London this is a bit further afield (excuse the pun!) but definitely worth doing and great if you’re on a budget. You can also get direct trains from London to either destination.

We had picked the perfect day for it, beautifully sunny with that cold, crisp winter feeling, and surprisingly we had more fun than we expected! We spent a couple of hours picking our pumpkins, strolling through the corn fields and of course getting some fab photos! You can also grab a wizard burger or eerie sausage roll from the food stall.

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With the pumpkins starting from just £1 we would definitely recommend visiting Foxes Farm this week, it’s fab for families and  couples looking for something new to do! They’re open from 10am – 4pm all half term, and it’s definitely a better experience than selecting your pumpkin from a supermarket!

Happy Halloween Travellers!

Limitless Tuesdays at Sway Bar

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Living in London is expensive, so imagine backpacking here. We know that even as a backpacker you want, no hold on, NEED a few nights of luxury!

Sway Bar in Holborn offers the perfect excuse to get dressed up and have an evening of endless flowing prosecco and limitless pizza, all for only £22 per person every Tuesday in a chic, quirky setting.

We used the opportunity for a cheeky date night in London and were really impressed that it is actually unlimited for the 90 minutes during your table reservation. There are a selection of pizzas they bring out one at a time, until you’re fit to burst, and the prosecco comes by the bottle!

This offer is on until the middle of November, so take advantage and book your tickets here.

The best of the West

One of our favourite things to do in London is to see a West End theatre show, this NEVER gets old! It’s always an exciting evening out and a good excuse to dress up. We probably go to the theatre twice a year, and never regret it!

This is definitely a hot spot if you’re a tourist in London too. Tickets can be quite expensive but not if you know where to look. If you’re not fussed what you see and when you see it, you can get cheap tickets in Leicester Square at the ticket stalls starting from £15 and it’s definitely worth exploring around there anyway. If you would like to take a bit more time to plan your trip, or if you have something particular in mind then check out www.lastminute.com as they always offer some sort of bargain!


 The first show we ever saw together was in the summer of 2009, and it was ‘Thriller‘ the Michael Jackson tribute. It was one of our very first dates which made it extra special in itself, but the show was phenomenal and you couldn’t help but get up and have a little boogie! We would certainly recommend it, especially for a first date, we’re still together nearly 7 years on!

 The most recent show we saw was ‘Bend it like Beckham’ which we were inspired to see after our recent trip to India, and we loved it! Very much like the film, but even more hilarious! Unfortunately this is no longer showing, but definitely keep your eye out incase it makes a comeback, which wouldn’t surprise us as it was so fabulous!
Our other favourites include the classic ‘Billy Elliott’ which we have seen several times and gets better with every viewing. ‘Wicked’, a twisted version about the witches of the famous Wizard of Oz with some spectacular songs. ‘Stomp’, an incredible mix of sounds and dance which you will find hard to believe is completely live, and finally our ultimate favourite has to be ‘The Lion King’, an excellent live performance replicating the movie and it is so moving. With incredible animal costumes which are SO aesthetically pleasing and of course the famous sound track, we guarantee you will NOT be disappointed!

For a full list of the shows we have seen, and further tips on what we would recommend as a traveller in London please contact us!

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