Coming home … again!

Some of you may have read our blog on coming home back in 2015 after we returned from a year long backpacking adventure. We were finding it so difficult to adjust back to reality and tried to express our feelings for other travellers to relate to. We had to realise it was okay to feel like we didn’t fit in with our society anymore but we found it extremely hard to explain it to the people around us and somehow writing about it was easier.

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So what happened when we finally started to settle back in to normality? We established a routine at work, enjoyed spending time with friends and family and then… decided to go again!

After just 12 months of being home, we did exactly that, this time not to backpack but to spend a few months at Our Home Community, as well as squeezing in some more of India and ticking Sri Lanka off our bucket list too.

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It was harder to leave this time, although it was what we both wanted, we had more doubts about going, right up until the journey to the airport. Were we doing the right thing going again? At 25 & 26, are we too old? Should we be buying a house and settling down? All these questions went round and round in our heads, and when we booked our flights to go, we were really emotional, not excited. Scared.

If leaving to go away for our second time was hard, imagine how hard it was to come back.

As we left for the airport we were so incredibly anxious, especially with it being 3:30am, we were actually still saying it’s not too late to change our minds. However after a power nap in the car, something clicked and as we arrived to the airport excitement kicked in. OKAY, WE’RE GOING AGAIN! It was like the polar opposite of what we’d been feeling in the weeks building up to our departure.

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After the emotional goodbyes before we knew it we were back in India and this time it was even better than before. We had two weeks to explore before heading to Our Home and we kept expecting something bad to happen, but it just didn’t! You either love or hate India but for us, each time we go gets better and better.

The main purpose of our trip was to spend a substantial amount of time with the children, for them to really get to know us and feel that they have us there to support them, no matter where in the world we are. We wanted them to know that from the day we met them in 2015 we are always going to be there in whatever way we can. (read about our experiences at Our Home)

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What could possibly be bad about spending three life changing months with the most amazing children and community in the most beautiful place in the world? Leaving.

When we talk about Our Home if you know us, you know we’re so passionate, and it’s because we’ve found our happy place. This is where we feel like we belong, we were born to do this. And therefore leaving was one of the worst, and most emotional days of our lives. The week building up to it was unbearable in itself and we had plenty of conversations with the children about why we couldn’t stay forever which was truly heart breaking. These children needed us and to have to leave was awful.

We told ourselves when the day was upon us we would be strong and not get upset, but that went straight out of the window when we woke up at 4:30am to find one of the boys just sitting outside our room waiting for us. It was like a slap in the face that our journey had come to an end. Every single child woke up extra early to see us off and give us letters and flowers, their little faces were just too much to cope with and we couldn’t stop hysterically crying. So much for being strong.

We had to take contentment that we achieved more than what we originally went to do, not only teaching and helping with day to day duties but building relationships and bonds with them that can never be broken. They all know that we will ALWAYS be there to support them and we will visit as much as we can, although it was the end of this trip it was just the start for our future with them. We came away with the best memories, together we experienced not only fun, laughter and love but we also endured the rawness, truthfulness, tears, emotions and overcome so many firsts. In the words of the children “You going time you no cry, you going time you happy only.” As we pulled away from Our Home we turned back to see them all just looking longingly with such emotion in their eyes, it’s a memory that will stay with us forever.

We had just over a month left to travel some more of India; Hampi, Bangalore and Goa before heading to Sri Lanka. It took us a while to get over feeling sad and couldn’t help but feel guilty in everything that we did, we had to give ourselves a good talking to and realise if we weren’t going to enjoy ourselves we may as well go home there and then. Not going home immediately was actually the best thing we could have done as it gave us a bit of time to adjust before going back to reality.

Our incredible trip very quickly came to an end after a life changing five months. We had a wonderful last few weeks but not only did we stay in luxury hotels, see beautiful views and eat delicious new delicacies but our time sleeping on the floor with no water or electricity, eating boiled rice for days and experiencing first hand what a cruel world it can be was what made our trip. We shape our world and we have the power to change it. We feel so lucky to be experiencing life and all it has to offer together, hopefully doing something along the way to help.

Landing back in England was just as we imagined, I mean we knew right? We’d done it before. Wrong. This time was so much harder, and it’s because we’d left our family in India behind.

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How is it possible to even try and settle back into every day London life when you’ve spent months living such a basic life with orphaned children in India? How can we justify spending £15 per day to travel to work when this is enough to feed them all? How can we spend hundreds of pounds on new clothes or on a night out when there is still so much suffering in this world? Our lives are a daily struggle of trying to fit back into society but also not forgetting what’s going on out there.

There is no answer to these questions … we just don’t know and are still trying to figure it all out. The truth is we will never be the same again. Our friends and family tell us how we’ve changed, and of course we have, you couldn’t experience what we have and be the same person.

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It’s an overwhelming sense of emotions coming home, not only because we miss the children but because we’re back to our same old life where nothing seems exciting. Everyday we have an overpowering wanderlust and always find our conversation drifting to “do you remember when we did …” we will never not have the desire to explore and experience new things, but how far do we go? Do we keep going again and again when there is that pressure on us to settle down, buy a house, get married and have our own children? Why can’t we be that couple that goes and settles down in an orphanage an India? That may sound crazy to you, but to us it couldn’t make more sense.

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It’s a really confusing time, and honestly? We don’t know what we want. Yes it’s the perfect fairy tale ending that we’ve spent eight amazing years together, seen the world, volunteered in India and now we should have our fairytale wedding and do everything by the book. Sounds great right? We’re not so sure …

“Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind.” – Anthony Bourdain

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Mauritius; The star and key of the Indian Ocean

 

Mauritius is one of those once in a lifetime destinations. A honeymoon spot for many or just an extraordinarily luxurious holiday that creates memories to last a lifetime. We were lucky enough to win a trip to the star and key of the Indian Ocean through the #BeachLife photo competition with Stylist Magazine and Veranda Resorts. If this blog teaches you anything please let it be that yes, people really do win those incredible holiday competitions you see on the TV and in magazines, just give it a go!

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Flying with Air France we were not looking forward to the 12-hour flight that awaited us but it turned out to be one of our most comfortable flights ever with a whole row to ourselves… each! We were able to sleep the full journey and arrive in the country we had been dreaming about ever since we got THAT tweet from Stylist Magazine.

We had never been to Africa before and although this wasn’t mainland Africa, we still didn’t know what to expect. Arriving in September it was pleasantly warm and we set off on our journey to the very north of the island. With the island being a mere 2040km² we drove the full length of the island within an hour, picking up some insightful information from our driver with the usual taxi chat. Did you know Mauritius’ biggest export is Prince’s tuna? Neither did we but we were more interested in the local rum which was to come later!

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Veranda Pointe Aux Biches was absolutely incredible. We have had a number of discussions since returning whether this was our best holiday ever and the hotel was definitely a major factor. The reception immediately set the tone with a sand and wooden theme almost forcing you to relax. Upon arriving the first thing you are asked to do is take your shoes off and immerse your feet under three water spouts representing peace, love and happiness. This might be a bit cringe for some but what a fantastic change to arriving and being asked for your booking details and credit card before so much as a hello!

We were toured through the hotel which was the most wonderful and peaceful setting we have ever encountered on holiday. The hotel has two pools, bars, restaurants , a spa, plenty of activities to get involved in, a private beach and the most welcoming staff you will ever meet. Being based in the Privilege room, we were free to eat at either of the two restaurants which offered very different but equally delicious food and impeccable service. The Sandy Lane village bar, pool and restaurant were for adults only, all-inclusive customers but really, you would have the holiday of a lifetime in any room in. We were free to roam to any part of resort and that’s exactly what we did, spreading our time between the Sandy Lane and Foot-Loose areas.

Our room was filled with complementary coffee, tea, fruit, snacks, coke and beer which were all replenished everyday. The towels were shaped into different animals each time you went back to your room and the view of the balcony was so perfect you could have a good time without even leaving the room.

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Although it wasn’t the height of summer, we couldn’t resist swimming in the pools and sea. We also made the effort to take out some of the free to use water sport equipment laid on by the hotel such as windsurf boards and kayaks. The Pina Coladas flowed all day, everyday and we soon found the coconut rum to be our drink of choice. A few nights ended with us being slightly more flamboyant that usual thanks to a few too many cocktails but if you can’t get carried away on holiday you may as well stay at home!

The Senses restaurant was a buffet style setup with fresh grilled steak, fish and chicken with an everlasting spread of supplements to go with it. The vegetable gratin was one of the most heavenly things we have ever had and for us to pick out the vegetable as our favourite item you know it was good! The all-you-can-eat style meant you could spend hours eating and chatting as the night wore on with the the cocktails still flowing freely.

Although we loved the buffet area, the Sandy Lane restaurant was on another level. Michelin style service was matched by scenic views made for memorable moments. The restaurant continued with the sand theme as you felt your toes settle into the sand as your listen to the waves crashing beneath the stars of the sky.

The food was impeccable with a different five course meal served up each night. From succulent steak to freshly caught fish brought in from the sea just a few metres away, this was a real fine dining experience. Deserts ranged from coconut emblazoned crème brulee to hand made profiteroles fit for a king. The food at Veranda Resorts was something we are sure we will never experience again, and that is a very upsetting thought!

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Wanting to see more of the country, we did venture out of the resort as we visited the Sir Seewoosagur Ramgoolam Botanical Garden and L’ Aventure du Sucre. The botanical gardens were a beauty and we recommend taking a picnic with you as it is a great place to explore where you can spend hours losing yourself within the exotic plants and giant tortoises. The sugar cane factory is great if you are keen on finding out more about the heritage of this incredible little island. It is more than just a sugar factory and explanation of processes, it also tells you about the people of the country, their customs, values and their beliefs.

We visited Trou aux Biches on a few occasions and thoroughly enjoyed taking some time away from the resort to see the real Mauritian people as we walked through small villages and chatted with the locals. The beach itself was yet another breathtaking setting but the same could be said about most of Mauritius. We also took a Veranda catamaran cruise to Bernaches Islet where we enjoyed a BBQ to conquer all BBQ’s, and spent a few hours taking in the perfection of Mauritius.

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On our last day we rented out some bikes to ride out to the sugar cane fields. Cycling through the winding roads and listening to the roar of the waves beside us, we made it to the fields which were a bit further out the way than they had seemed in the car! The long ride was well worth it though as we settled down and explored the fields that could have lasted forever if we only had our eyes to judge it by.

Mauritius has become that holiday that will never be beaten. That luxury break that cannot be topped and that memory that will never be lost.

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The Asian Circle

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KHTravels are working with The Asian Circle on a mission to support vulnerable women in India and South Asia. We are honoured to be assisting with their social media campaign raising awareness of the fantastic work that they carry out daily. Please help spread the word and follow them on Twitter, Facebook & Instagram!

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The Asian Circle is working together with Oxfam in the tribal Adivasi communities in North East India to challenge the social acceptance of sexual and domestic violence against women. Oxfam is helping the government, police and judiciary to apply the laws that protect women. This includes setting up support centres in police stations to provide shelter, legal advice, counselling and launching a state-wide campaign to raise awareness of and change attitudes towards violence against women.

Around the world, 35% of women and girls suffer physical or sexual violence in their lifetime. November 25th is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, a day dedicated to raise public awareness about this and other appalling statistics and that is what we’re doing!

Colombo; What to do & where to eat

A city we fell in love with instantly, that crazy, intense, knock you off your feet kinda love. Arriving in Colombo straight from India, we thought we knew what to expect; smog, bikes, tuctucs, rubbish, too many people, too many horns, too little pavement and a variety of smells that send your senses spiralling out of control. However, we were wrong! Never judge a book by its cover, Colombo was so far from what we expected, and in the most wonderful way.

As we left the airport and headed straight down the highway at 5am towards the city, we immediately felt a kind of culture shock. Having spent three months in India, being a passenger in an electric car on a smooth road with accompanying signs and markings was somewhat strange, but oh so good!

Where to stay

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We were spending three nights of luxury at the wonderful Jetwing Colombo Seven, a brand new stylish hotel located in the heart of the city. If you’re looking for slice of paradise during your Colombo stay than this is the place to be. Panoramic views of the upcoming skyline, a rooftop infinity pool and cocktail bar open until 2am, huge rooms with the most beautiful decor, an indulgent spa and room service to die for, this was heaven and the perfect place to celebrate K’s birthday and our eight year anniversary!

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What to do

Our first evening was spent wandering the cute, cobbled streets of the Old Dutch Hospital which offered plenty of eateries to choose from, we opted for a little Chinese place and whilst in Sri Lanka you have to try the garlic Kankun, its incredible and very similar to Vietnam’s morning glory. There are plenty of bars to choose from, our particular favourite was the Tap House serving very cheap beer and great pub grub! The area is also home to several shopping outlets open till late to quench your thirst for shopping.

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We love experiencing a new country’s culture and whilst in Colombo we visited Gangarama and Seema Malaka Buddhist temples. Both so beautiful, entry fee is 300lkr which admits you into both which is an added bonus. The temples oozed culture and with so many buddhas around we didn’t know where to start. There was something very special about these temples and despite being in the middle of a huge downpour it didn’t stop us enjoying their uniqueness. Seema Malaka is located in the same lake as Gangaramaya Park and has great views of the surrounding areas.

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Next up was The Sri Lanka National Museum which had an entry price of 1500lkr per person. It was another lovely building and very informative about the history of this amazing country, located on huge grounds it’s worthy giving yourself a couple hours to explore the museum and surrounding areas.

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We wanted to see a Sri Lankan shopping mall and chose Arcade Independence Square from the many options. The quirky layout was great to wander around and so different from the standard shopping centre. We were lucky with the weather and when we came outside to see the Bandaranaike Memorial we could relax and enjoy the sun! We love trying out the cinemas in every country we visit, not only because they’re substantially cheaper than the cinemas in the U.K. but throughout Asia they seem to be so classy! This one was a little on the small side but so clean and welcoming and had a very traditional feel.

Pettah market is great to check out if you want to experience some local markets and get away from the tourist hubs. You can simply wander around taking in the hustling streets of traders and maybe even try some traditional local snacks. The red mosque in the centre of it all is also worth paying a visit.

Where to eat/drink

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We’re big foodies and first up on our list of restaurants to try was The Fat Crab. We opted for the fish platter which was nothing short of delicious, overflowing with lobster, calamari, scallops, tiger prawns and of course their famous crab… we have been dreaming about this place ever since!

Next up was the highly recommended Gallery Café, with crab to start and beef and tuna steaks for main, the food in Colombo just seemed to be getting better and better! Unfortunately, we had had one too many cocktails and didn’t have room for a dessert which is what they are renowned for with over 30 on the menu! Oh well … we will have to return to Sri Lanka one day.

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Barefoot Cafe is also an unmissable place to visit, both for the food and the shopping. Whilst visiting the cafe we enjoyed Lion beer, fresh falafel pittas and beef bagels with such fresh and healthy ingredients. After our tummies we’re nicely full we enjoyed shopping through their endless supply of organic products which are all made in Sri Lanka, it is a shop you could spend hours in admiring each carefully crafted item!

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On K’s Birthday, we went to the famous Galle Face Hotel for bellinis by the sea in both the Pool Bar and Travellers’ Bar. It was lovely to spend a couple of hours simply relaxing and soaking up the atmosphere of this stunning hotel.

Although just a flying visit our time in Colombo was wonderful, we fell in love with the people, the sights, the food, the cleanliness, the transport, literally everything. We couldn’t fault anything about our time here and we’re incredibly excited to see what the future holds for this incredible city.

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Exploring Kandy

 

 

Travelling to Kandy from Colombo was our first time using public transport in Sri Lanka and after spending so long travelling India we were pretty sure we knew what to expect but it’s always daunting the first time you travel in a new country.

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Clock Inn were really helpful with our planning and said we didn’t even need to prebook train tickets, which we found hard to believe! Following their advice we got to Colombo train station, purchased our tickets and boarded the train with no problems at all which was a pleasant surprise. Although we bought second class tickets we had to sit in third class due to a lack of seats but this wasn’t a problem and we couldn’t really tell the difference between the classes. The journey itself took just over four hours and it was beautiful as we left behind the bustling city and headed for the mountains. It felt so much easier than travelling by train in India and we also met the kindest lady who bought us some peanuts even though she didn’t speak a word of English!

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Kandy itself is the second largest Sri Lankan city and a lot of travellers use it to explore surrounding areas. We booked the Kandy day trip with ‘Perry’ via Clock Inn at 2500lkr for both of us and although it was a bit more expensive than what the local tuc tuc drivers offer we still had a great day and couldn’t fault the service.

First stop on the tour was the Pinnewala Elephant Orphanage, however we decided to skip this due to the controversial stories of the elephant welfare and Perry very kindly instead took us to an additional three temples which were off the beaten track, away from the tourists and very sacred. One of them actually appears on the 500 rupee note!

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Another stop on the tour included a tea factory and plantation which was great. Although we’ve visited the tea plantations in Munnar this was just as good and really informative. The local girls presenting the tour were excellent and the tea sample with the honey sugar cubes was delicious!

We requested to stop off at a spice plantation as believe it or not it’s something we’ve never done before. Again it was really interesting and we thoroughly enjoyed it, the highlight being the rare baby pineapple plants which were the cutest things ever. We wanted to take them home but we’re not sure customs would have allowed that!

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We decided to skip the Botanical Gardens as at 1500 rupees each we didn’t think we would make the most out of it, being 147 acres in size there was no way we would get around them quickly!

The Big Buddha was the highlight of our trip, the giant white statue towers over the entire city and we were surprised that when we arrived there weren’t many tourists so we could enjoy the peaceful temple and beautiful views to ourselves. Unfortunately we can’t say the same the the Temple of the Tooth which we were quite disappointed with. Of course if you’re visiting Kandy this is probably number one on your to-do list but for us it was very underwhelming. The tooth only comes out once every five years and the temple itself wasn’t as spectacular as many others we’ve seen.

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In Kandy we found a couple of great eateries including Slightly Chilled Lounge Bar, also known as the Bamboo Garden to the locals, which served up delicious Chinese food, beers and cocktails and even showed the football to K’s delight. It had such a relaxed vibe and offered incredible views of the city so it’s definitely worth a visit. Our other favourite was Buono, not really a dinner option but it’s excellent to grab a drink and a snack. It’s so tiny and really hidden away but had a lovely atmosphere and offers fab milkshakes, cakes and three varieties of burgers which were actually quite good! It was a funny little place and somewhere the local uni students used as their hang out, a good way to experience a bit of the young Kandy culture.

Unfortunately during our time in Kandy we both came down with the Sri Lankan ‘Delhi Belly’ and therefore didn’t get to do as much as we wanted, including a trip to Adam’s Peak. We did however research this thoroughly and many travellers either use Kandy as a hub to do day trips to the surrounding areas including Dambulla and Sigiriya or you can use it as a short stop on the way to your next destination which is what we did. It’s a really friendly little city and we loved the cleanliness, people and the sights it had to offer.

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A weekend in Hampi

Would you believe until a few months ago despite having travelled all over India in 2015 we had never heard of Hampi! It wasn’t until we met at group of guys travelling India by bike at Our Home that we were recommended to visit. It was only then that we started seeing Hampi pop up all over the place online and on various travel blogs, so we decided we had to go!

Where to stay

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We spent quite a lot of time browsing online to find the right accommodation. There seemed to be two options; very cheap or very expensive. Neither of these were what we wanted and it appeared that the only mid-range hotel at £25 per night was Clarks Inn, little did we know when we booked this place what a gem we had found. In prime location we were warmly greeted by friendly, confident and efficient staff, often quite hard to find in India unless you are staying in a luxury hotel. The room was great with lots of space, high ceilings, clean white walls and white bed sheets (a favourite of ours!) with good air con, a TV and spacious bathroom. The only downside was that the wifi didn’t quite reach our room but we couldn’t complain with such comfortable surroundings and so much to do in Hampi. The hotel also had a lovely swimming pool which was an added bonus and absolutely perfect after a long day exploring the local ruins and the onsite restaurant also served up good food either in the pleasant restaurant or as room service. We really couldn’t recommended this hotel highly enough.

What to do

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There are a few options to explore Hampi including by bike/scooter, push bike, tuctuc and taxi. Anyone that chooses the push bike option deserves a medal as in 40+ degrees we wouldn’t even attempt it! Being completely honest we rushed into a decision a bit and when our hotel offered a luxury AC car for the day at only 1500 rupees we jumped at the chance. This is very cheap for a day tour in such good transport but we’re sure a tuc tuc would have been much cheaper and just as good so you should shop around first!

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The tour will see you cover most of Hampi and you will quickly see what a fascinating place it is. We won’t go into too much detail as we don’t want to spoil the surprises you have in store but a few of our favourite spots included Hemakuta Temple Hill which offered fantastic views and takes you away from the tourists. Sasivekalu Ganesha is an impressively large statue of Ganesh and there are plenty more beautiful temples to see with each as impressively ancient as the next with probably too many to list! The Lotus Mahal, Elephant Stables, Guards Quarters and Queens Bath are just a few and each one is stunningly interesting in its own way.

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The bazaar is located just next to Virupaksha Achyutaraya Temple and is a backpacker’s paradise. Full of handmade products, elephant pants, slogan t-shirts and plenty of eateries this place is a must visit. We also noticed that it’s surprisingly cheap so we would recommend not bargaining too hard here, remember that extra 20p to you can be a lot to the locals.

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Now obviously it depends on what side of the river you are staying on but for us over the river was the other side of the main temples and bazaar. We had read that ordinarily you can catch a boat over for very little, however, we were surprised and saddened to see that the water was so shallow due to the drought we could simply walk right over. We initially thought we may get a tuc tuc to see the sights on the other side but soon realised this wasn’t the thing to do. We hired a scooter for 300 rupees and it was so relaxed, as long as you returned it in good condition! We recommend you go on a long drive past the lake and take in the gorgeous views. There are also quite a few temples to see but none better than Hanuman Temple. We made the mistake of climbing up at midday but if you set off early the climb shouldn’t be too hard. Although the temple hasn’t got that much of a wow factor, the views you’re rewarded with make it so worthwhile.

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Where to eat

There are plenty of places to eat around Hampi and we will start with our hotel. Even if you’re not staying in Clarks Inn we would recommend paying them a visit for dinner. The restaurant is really nice and is a welcome break from all of the backpacker places if you fancy something different and the food is good with reasonable prices.

In the Bazaar we originally wanted to try Funky Monkey but was closed so we opted for the highly recommended Mango Tree and we can certainly say it lived up to expectations! We both went for a pizza each and finished the lot. They were as good as a pizza can be in India and we also noticed lots of people ordering the Indian dishes and they also looked and smelt great!

Over the river you can get beers nice and easily which is always a bonus in India. We followed the signs to The White Elephant but ended up eating in a place just opposite as it was a lot busier. Unfortunately we had to wait over an hour for the food which was just above average, so although we didn’t try it, we would suggest sticking to The White Elephant!

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Our time in Hampi was unexpectedly brilliant. We didn’t know what we were going to find and were so happy with our few days exploring this ancient city and enjoying our accommodation. It is now up there with one of our favourite places in India so if you’re travelling south you can’t miss it!

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Clock Inn Hostel

During our two weeks exploring Sri Lanka we’ve chosen to do a mix of luxury and budget accommodation to get a feel of what Sri Lanka has to offer for a range of travellers.

Being a travel couple dorm rooms aren’t ideal for us therefore when we came across Clock Inn Hostel it seemed the perfect budget accommodation as it also offered double private rooms.

We booked to stay at Clock Inn Colombo for one night when we arrived as well as three nights in Kandy. We knew we had chosen the right hostel even before we set foot in the country having had several email correspondences with the management who so helpfully assisted with our route planning and very kindly booked our airport transfers. Everything you can hope for when planning to visit a new place!

Clock Inn Colombo offers budget conscious backpackers clean, cozy and well equipped private bedrooms and dorm rooms. Despite the fact we arrived at 4am we were greeted so warmly in the cutest reception space full of bright colours and quirky decor. Our room had a large bed (just what we needed after four hour flight delays!) AC, cable TV, towels, toiletries, bottled water and a hot shower! To most backpackers this sounds like a fantasy but trust us it’s real! After a couple of hours sleep we enjoyed our free breakfast which consisted of eggs cooked to your preference, bread/toast, cereal and fruit, accompanied with fruit juice and tea/coffee (which is free all day). Our stay at Clock Inn Colombo was the perfect welcome to the city.

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After a few days exploring we booked a train to Kandy. Located right in the centre, Clock Inn Kandy is within walking distance to most of the local attractions. As with the branch in Colombo, our private room was great and featured all of the same excellent amenities and even offered use of the MAC computer in reception. Although we didn’t have much time to use the common area it looked fab, clean and full of games, DVDs and books.

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If you’re looking for something different they also offer quirky little capsules which we’ve never seen anywhere else before! Perfect for solo, budget backpackers who occasionally need their own space.

All in all our stay at both Clock Inns were faultless and we couldn’t recommend them enough! If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact us.

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A weekend in Bangalore

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Visiting Bangalore was a strange place for us as it came immediately after leaving Our Home Community. Once we did finally manage to wipe away our tears and venture out of our hotel room we soon discovered we were in what could become one of our favourite Indian cities! Please forgive our lack of photos in this blog, we felt we just needed a few days away from smiley snaps and social media!

Where not to stay:

We booked to stay at Treebo Edge and being a business city, accommodation wasn’t cheap to come by and the location of this particular Treebo caught our attention.

The hotel was a short walk away from the grand UB City Mall and this was fantastic but unfortunately this is where the positives ended.

The room was small and stuffy with no windows. The staff were not helpful at all and borderline incompetent, we aren’t the most difficult travellers to please but the staff found it difficult to answer the simplest of questions.

The walls were wafer thin so you heard every conversation from the reception to the guests next door and all in between. The food was mediocre at best (that’s being generous) and we had to argue to get access to the wifi! All together Treebo Edge in Bangalore is a big no no.

What to do:

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Bangalore is one of the biggest cities in India but unfortunately we only had two nights to explore and most of our time was spent in the luxurious UB City mall and comfort eating! The whole layout of the place is exceptional and exudes class, we would suggest you leave the elephant pants behind for this outing and it’s by no means a cheap place to shop but even if you go for a walk and a beer you will enjoy your experience. Our top tip would be to save your ventures to UB City for the evenings and take advantage of the many happy hours on offer at the local bars during the day. Bootlegger was our preferred choice and we’d definitely recommend giving it a visit.

Where to eat:

Once again UB City was our saviour from the disappointment that awaited us at Treebo Edge. There is an abundance of incredible restaurants to choose from on the outside terrace and we decided to give Sanchez a try after being lured in by the scent of fresh fajitas!

Sanchez was reasonably priced considering its setting and the food itself was delicious. The staff were exceptional and it was the perfect pick me up as we drank our sorrows away in the Mexican surroundings.

We also visited Shiro for a drink and we were right when we guessed they would make one hell of a Pinocalada! *inserts throwback to Mauritius*

Shiro was especially busy and no wonder as the setting was one of a Japanese paradise with the dark shades contrasting with the giant Buddha as the white elephant in the bamboo enclosed room. We managed to get a seat on one of the sofas in the main restaurant but we would avoid waiting at the rooftop bar in the sweltering summer nights despite the soothing sounds of live acoustic music.

Cafe Mojo on St.Marks road was another great find. From the outside it doesn’t look the most appealing and you have to go up a set of stairs before reaching the restaurant, but when you enter you are immediately relieved! Goan themed this hidden gem wasn’t as busy as it should have been. Excellent service, cheap but delicious food and drinks with a good atmosphere. If you’re looking for a budget night out then this is your place.

Finally if you’re an ice-cream lover make sure you take a break from the scorching city heat and visit Fava. The most incredible menu of luxury ice cream for such reasonable prices!

We can’t really say we explored Bangalore as we missed out on many of the top things to do due to a lack of time. However we weren’t there for a long time, we were there for a good time and that’s just what we had.✌🏽

The last week at Our Home

It’s taken us a while to write this blog … we’ve been coming to terms with leaving Our Home and the last week was so emotional we’ve not known how to put it into words. However, having cried out all our tears and spoken to the children numerous times since leaving, we’re now ready to share our experience with you.

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The week was a beautiful one, filled with so many wonderful memories makers. We went on plenty of walks where the children picked us lovely flowers to “take back to England.” K enjoyed his last few football matches with the older boys, we sang songs and recapped over the amaxing few months we spent together. We took more photos and promised the children as soon as we returned to England we will print and send them as we did last time which gave them something exciting to look forward to.

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The children had many heart wrenching questions for us “when are you coming back?” “why can’t you live here?” “Do the airports check your bags? I was thinking I could sneak in and come to England with you.” It truly was so tough and we were just as upset as them, if not more. All we could do was reassure them that we would be back and told them that not a day will go by that we won’t think about them and that we will write, phone and do everything we can to stay in touch. It felt different leaving this time to before. It wasn’t just an orphanage where we volunteered at, it was family we were leaving. Our little bedroom became our home and we packed our bags whilst listening to music from the last few months that we had shared with the children… which probably didn’t help!

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To make things just a tad more difficult during the last few days there was absolutely no water or electricity. It was a really hard few days both physically and emotionally and the children needed a treat. We wanted to make our last evening as fun as possible and luckily during the afternoon the electricity and water finally came back. We brought some speakers to the dining hall to play music and H’s nan and granddad very kindly sponsored chicken biryani for dinner, the kids favourite! Although it was lovely evening enjoyed by all, we couldn’t get away from the feeling that we were leaving tomorrow, it felt very surreal.

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When the morning came around we woke up so heartbroken that our incredible journey at Our Home had come to an end. One of the boys was awake already at 5am and had come to our room to help us finish packing. That started the tears off and once they started they wouldn’t stop! It was by far the hardest thing we’ve ever had to do. Every single child woke up extra early to see us off and greeted us with letters, flowers and drawings. We said goodbye to each and every one of them although we could barely speak we were so upset. So much for keeping it together and being strong! We were so sad as as our car drove away and all of the kids stood looking on.

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We did however leave feeling content that we achieved more than what we originally came to do, not only teaching and helping with day to day duties but building relationships and bonds with the children that can never be broken. They all know that we will ALWAYS be there to support them and we will visit as much as we can, although it’s the end of this trip it is just the start for our future with them. We’ve made the best memories and together experienced not only the fun, laughter and love but we’ve also endured the rawness, truthfulness, tears, emotions and overcome so many firsts. In the words of the children:

“You going time you no cry, you going time you happy only” … Until next time Our Home.

Summer ’17

The summer holidays are well underway and the children are used to their new daily routines without school, breakfast is a also a little later now which we must admit we’re enjoying and there’s lots of spring cleaning going on in the bedrooms!

The days seem a lot longer and we’re trying to think of different activities we can do each day to keep the kids entertained. Something we hadn’t thought of until now was downloading a film on our IPad. We bought some popcorn and arranged two screenings of our makeshift movie day, one for the girls and one for the boys. “Happy Feet” was our film of choice and first up was the boys. As they all crowded round to watch the small screen they were super excited for an English cartoon movie, we couldn’t believe how they all managed to slot themselves into positions to be able to see. We were buried in amongst them and after just 15 minutes we were literally melting due to the heat. We didn’t dare move though as the boys were all so comfortable and enjoying the film, laughing so much their stomachs were hurting!

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As always the girls were a lot more organised and balanced the iPad on a chair that they could all sit around to see. Their reactions to the film was much different to the boys and they loved the cute baby penguins and love story going on, some tears were even shed at the emotional scenes! Next time we return to Our Home we will come equipped with more movies for them, we really enjoy giving them some new experiences, and when it’s 40 degrees outside with no water, there’s not much else for them to do!

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The hot topic for this week was the upcoming “Tour” to Kannur Beach. We decided to take the kids on a day trip to the beach and hired a big tourist bus for the 7th April. Leading up to the day they couldn’t stop planning, from what they were going to wear, what time they were waking up and who they were going to sit next to on the bus. When it finally came around the day itself was incredible, we made the most beautiful memories and being many of the kids’ first time to the beach it was also really emotional.

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The next big day, 10th April, soon approached which was when the children were getting their exam results and I think we were more anxious than them! We woke up early that morning and went down to the school and were greeted with The BEST news ever. The longs days teaching and evenings spent on one to one homework classes have paid off as every single child at Our Home Community passed their exams and are moving up to their next year studying. Previously children have been held back one if not two years for not passing their exams. Surya was particularly overjoyed having been one of the children held back, he has now finished with the highest marks in his class! The smiles say it all and we’re so proud of all of the girls and boys for working so hard with us.

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This week Our Home had a group of German volunteers visiting and unfortunately this meant we had to vacate our little bedroom so they could all stay together. However, this did mean that we could stay in a local hotel only a short walk away from Our Home and to be honest the AC and warm water was a welcome change! We also used the opportunity to give the boys and girls some little day trips and took a few of them each day during our stay to explore the hotel grounds, order some french fries, fresh juice and relax in a different environment for a few hours.

As our time at Our Home is coming to an end we’re making the most of every single second with the children. Its been another two weeks that have flown passed, filled with emotion, joy, day trips and certainly one of the best school summer holidays for us too!

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